Personal development is the pursuit of learning, developing, honing and mastering the skills that help you become the best that you can, with all that you have.
It is the reaching for, and realizing of your full potential as a human being.
You want to live a full, productive life, but sometimes, you just don?t know where to begin.
There is so much information ?out there? that it can be overwhelming and hard to choose what is right for you.
Depending on your concerns what seems to work for one person, may not necessarily work for you.
There are so many different ideas, strategies, advice and techniques that it?s hard to chose the right one.
One thing, however, is certain. If you want to achieve anything in your life and realise your full potential, you must have some practical and positive skills ? life skills.
In order to excel at work, in a sport or in your relationships, you must acquire and master certain skills. Living your life fully, productively and with enjoyment is no different.
Crucially possessing life skills enables you to deal with the life?s inevitable challenges and adversities more effectively. It reduces your chances of procrastinating, finding yourself getting frustrated and stressed, engaging in addictive behaviours, and experiencing overall despair and hopelessness.
When you have the proper tools and actions at your disposal, you have more control over your life and time making you happier and more confident.
Taking the first steps
Your first step is establishing a firm foundation. That foundation must be ?you?. You need to know who you are, what you want, and what you are capable of. You must then determine which values, goals and principles you will establish to guide your actions.
Learning about and applying essential life skills will help you. It will help you to:
- know and understand yourself better
- live life more consciously and deliberately to attain personal satisfaction and fulfilment
The hardest part in dealing with any major challenge is taking the first step, however once you do, there is a surprising positive and snowball effect. You will begin to feel good about what you?re doing and you?ll want to take further steps.You will want to keep improving yourself and to become the very best that you can be.
Your continuing journey of personal development will make you aware that there is so much more knowledge and information to be discovered, and uncovered, than you ever thought possible ? knowledge about yourself, knowledge about others, knowledge about life and the world around you.
A fantastic life experience controlled by you, if you make a start.Personal development is about wanting and pursuing new experiences, knowledge and excellent relationships. Nothing should be left out in your pursuit of finding your future self and life fulfilment.
You desire the best for you and what you want
To support you and encourage you in your pursuit of improvement and in expanding your confidence, I suggest you to read and explore every area of interest that excites you.
Read inspirational quotes, and personal development articles that include helpful tips and actions, as well as other interesting advice.
The good news is that acquiring essential life skills will not only contribute to your personal growth and development, it will make you a more interesting and dynamic individual.
Why are these new skills and experiences essential?
Without them you will always feel that something is missing in your life. What good is all the financial success in the world if you don?t have self-confidence, or know who you really are, what you want, or what you?re doing here?
We?ve all witnessed many outwardly successful and famous people who have not been able to find personal happiness. No amount of fame or fortune could fill the void they felt inside.
Your steps to achieve more of your development potential confirm that it is important to follow a plan that includes actions to:
Develop a healthy self esteem by:
- Start from where you are right now
- Knowing yourself
- Learn to love yourself
- Always be true to yourself
- Develop a personal value system
- Keeping an honest perspective on life
- Keep an open mind
- Develop and keep a sense of humour
- Show resilience
- Accept the reality of your situation and the world.
Use your time effectively:
- Don?t procrastinate
- Develop clear realistic and personal goals
- Have a daily priority plan
- Make time for you and your family, friends
- Find a hobby or pastime and enjoy it
- Work to minimise your experience of stress
Fill any idle time with useful action:
- Make money at home ? internet ? home tasks
- Take affordable and enjoyable holidays
- Undertake DIY projects
- Enjoy gardening even if it just a window box
- Take on board a hobby that brings you in contact with others
- Make new friends by joining local social groups
- Start a course of learning something that you will enjoy
- Your health is vital so do exercise, (within the limits of your current ability) diet or join a health club
- Develop new relationships even use Dating opportunities
- Undertake serious study to enhance your expertise and help your brain to develop
- Develop Speed reading to open up opportunities to help others or earn extra cash
The opportunities to develop yourself fill the internet, books, advice centres and your friends.
CHOOSE THOSE THAT WILL BUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE AND MAKE YOU OPTIMISTIC ABOUT YOUR FUTURE.
Good Luck!!
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Article by Derek R B
About the Author :?Derek Butcher, Coach. Consultant and Trainer for 35 years. CEO of http://www.time champions.com/learning and http://www.timechampons.com/personal-development
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